Informal mentoring

Who mentored you? As you reflect on your life, who were the adults or peers who made an impact on your opinions, decisions and actions? Perhaps, through their example, they influenced your values and aspirations.

Informal mentoring happens throughout your life in relationships with family, friends, co-workers, faith leaders and others. Informal mentoring can happen anywhere.

There is no checklist of qualities shared by every mentor—but common traits include active listening, dependability and trust worthiness. We know that effective mentors meet a child at their level and in their space, rather than treating them as a "little adult." By offering acceptance to a youth, a mentor says explicitly, and through actions, "I believe in you and your ability to reach your potential."

Oregon Mentors encourages all adults to mentor the young people in your communities – family, work, church, etc. If, as an informal mentor, you need support, visit the resources section of the Oregon Mentors’ Web site for assistance. Consider joining a formal mentoring program to receive ongoing support and information.